Servant Leadership: Leading Like Jesus

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Leading Like Jesus: The Heart of Servant Leadership

Embracing Christ’s Example of Humility and Service.

In this lesson, you are invited to journey into the beautiful paradox of servant leadership—the way of Jesus that turns worldly ideas of greatness upside down. To lead like Jesus is to step into a life marked by humility, self-giving love, and a willingness to serve others before seeking your own recognition. Whether you lead in your family, your workplace, your church, or among friends, true leadership begins with a heart to kneel, to listen, and to lift others higher. This is the call: not to seek status or applause, but to quietly reflect the heart of the Shepherd who washes feet and lays down His life for others.

Imagine the impact if every believer embraced this posture. How might your home, team, or community change if you led with compassion, listened with patience, and responded with generosity? Servant leadership is not a weakness—it is strength surrendered for the good of others, a power that comes from being anchored in Yeshua’s love.

Journal or pray: “Yeshua, help me to lead as You lead. Give me the humility to serve, the courage to lift others, and the heart to see greatness in loving like You.”

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Learning Objectives

Learn the principles of servant leadership as modeled by Jesus, and how to lead others with humility, grace, and love.
  • Lead like Jesus, practicing servant leadership and humility in all areas of life.
  • Embrace the mindset of a servant leader, following Christ’s example in humility and service.

Language: English

Intro

Servant Leadership: The Way of the Master.

Beloved, there’s something breathtakingly countercultural about the way Yeshua led His disciples and the world. In an age—and even in a church culture—where leadership is often associated with power, titles, and authority, Jesus models something radically different: the life of a servant. In John 13, on the very night of His betrayal, Yeshua took a towel and basin, knelt down, and washed the feet of His friends. Then He asked, “Do you understand what I have done for you? … I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you” (John 13:12, 15).

It’s easy to admire this moment from a distance, but if we let it sink in, it should turn our thinking upside down. The One who spoke galaxies into being—Yahweh in flesh—chose the role of a servant, not just as a lesson, but as a lifestyle. Philippians 2 says, “Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus … who made Himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant.” True greatness, according to the Kingdom, is found not in being served, but in serving. Mark 10:45 echoes, “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.”

Let’s pause for a moment: What does servant leadership look like in your world? It might mean quietly shouldering someone else’s burden at work, staying late to encourage a struggling teammate, or putting your family’s needs before your own plans. It’s the shepherd who knows his flock by name, the manager who lifts others, the friend who listens deeply. 1 Peter 5:2-3 urges, “Be shepherds of God’s flock … not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock.”

The humility of Yeshua is not weakness; it’s strength under control, love in action, and obedience that lays down pride and reputation. Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less—lifting others higher, looking for ways to bless without seeking credit. It’s why Yeshua could say, “Whoever wants to be first must be your servant.” (Matthew 23:11)

Journal prompt: Where is God inviting you to serve, to go lower, or to take on a humble task that others might overlook? What holds you back from embracing the towel and basin in your context? Journal or pray: “Ruach HaKodesh, give me the heart of a servant. Teach me to lead like Yeshua—with love, humility, and courage.”

Let’s pray: Abba Father, thank You for sending Yeshua to show us true greatness. Make us servant leaders—willing to wash feet, to honor others, to lead with humility and grace. May Your love flow through us and change the atmosphere wherever You send us. In Jesus’ name, amen.

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Language: English

Point 1

Humility in Action: The Culture of Christ’s Kingdom.

Beloved, if servant leadership is the “what,” then humility is the “how.” True Christ-like leadership cannot flourish without a foundation of humility. Philippians 2:3-4 tells us, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” In other words, Yahweh’s kingdom flips the world’s values on their head. Where the world says, “Push your way to the top,” Yeshua says, “Take the lowest place, and let God lift you up.”

In the English context, humility is often mistaken for self-deprecation or shyness, but in the life of a disciple, it’s active and bold. Humility is the parent who apologizes to their child, the leader who listens more than speaks, the volunteer who shows up early and leaves late. It’s choosing not to retaliate when misunderstood or overlooked, and quietly persevering in faithfulness even when recognition never comes.

Consider the gentle wisdom of Jesus in Mark 10:42-44: “You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them … Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” Yeshua never asks us to walk a path He hasn’t walked Himself. On the cross, the King of kings displayed humility in its highest form—offering forgiveness, loving His enemies, surrendering to the Father’s will.

Let’s make this practical: What would happen if, in your family, workplace, or church, you chose to put the interests of others before your own? Maybe it’s stepping back so someone else can shine, or giving up the last word in an argument. It could mean serving behind the scenes, praying for those who hurt you, or investing time in people who have nothing to offer in return.

Pause and reflect: Is there an area of your life where pride is holding you back from deeper love, service, or reconciliation? Where might Yeshua be inviting you to “go lower” so that He can be lifted higher? Journal or pray: “Father, reveal where pride has crept in. Give me grace to walk humbly, to honor others, and to lead like Christ.”

Let’s pray: Yahweh, we surrender our need to be noticed, honored, or in control. Give us the mind of Christ—gentle, humble, eager to serve. May our lives point to Your greatness, not our own. Fill us with Your Spirit, so humility becomes our true strength. In Yeshua’s name, amen.

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Point 2

The Strength of Servanthood: Leading With Love and Power.

As we press further into the heart of servant leadership, let’s recognize that the call to serve is not a call to weakness or passivity—it is a call to courageous, Spirit-empowered love. In John 13:12-17, Yeshua washes His disciples’ feet, performing the lowest act of service in that culture, then looks them in the eye and says, “I have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you.” It is stunning: the One with all authority demonstrates true greatness not by wielding power but by stooping in love. This act was prophetic, not just a lesson in hospitality, but a declaration that every leader in His Kingdom must choose the basin and the towel over the throne and the crown.

In our world, we often equate leadership with influence or visibility. But the strongest leaders in the Kingdom are those who serve with integrity when no one is watching, who protect the vulnerable, who lift up the weary, and who put others’ needs before their own. Paul writes in 1 Peter 5:2-3, “Be shepherds of God’s flock … not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock.” Shepherd leadership is personal, attentive, sacrificial. It’s the teacher who invests extra hours in a struggling student, the manager who stands up for their team, the friend who lays down their agenda to sit with someone in pain.

This is not easy. In fact, it is impossible without the empowerment of Ruach HaKodesh. The love and humility required to lead like Jesus are not self-generated—they are fruit of intimacy with Him. When you spend time with Yeshua in prayer and worship, His Spirit fills you, softens your heart, and gives you the courage to serve boldly and sacrificially, even when it’s uncomfortable or costly.

Practical activation: Ask yourself, “Where is God calling me to pick up the towel and basin this week?” Perhaps it’s forgiving someone who’s wronged you, giving away something precious, or simply listening with your whole heart. Servant leadership often starts with small, hidden choices that no one but Yahweh sees.

Pause and reflect: Who is God putting on your heart to serve right now? Is there a need, a person, or a situation where you can step in, lay down your rights, and display the love of Christ? Journal or pray: “Yeshua, teach me to love with Your love. Empower me by Your Spirit to lead by serving, and to see every act of humility as worship to You.”

Let’s pray: Father, thank You for the strength that comes from serving in Your name. Fill us with Your love and courage to serve those around us—both in the big moments and in the unseen, daily choices. May our leadership reflect the humility and boldness of Yeshua, who came not to be served, but to serve. In His name, amen.

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Point 3

True Greatness: Embracing Humility in Every Season.

Beloved, one of the most radical teachings of Yeshua is His redefinition of greatness. In Mark 10:42-45, He gathers His disciples and contrasts worldly leadership with the Kingdom way: “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be the slave of all. For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” In a culture that prizes status, applause, and position, Jesus points us to the paradox of Kingdom greatness: it is found in humility, in laying down our lives, and in putting others first.

This isn’t just theory. In everyday life, humility is seen in leaders who are teachable, who admit their mistakes, and who welcome feedback from those they lead. It is the mom who serves her family in love, the elder who prays in secret, the boss who takes responsibility and gives credit away. Philippians 2:3-8 calls us to “do nothing from selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves … Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus.” That mind is marked by servanthood, obedience, and sacrificial love—even when it costs us our pride or our comfort.

We cannot manufacture this humility in our own strength. It grows in the soil of honest prayer, repentance, and the ongoing work of the Ruach HaKodesh in our lives. The humble leader is not the one who thinks less of themselves, but the one who thinks of themselves less and of Christ more. As we yield our ambitions, our plans, and our reputation to Yahweh, He shapes us into true servant leaders—vessels who carry His glory and bless others with every step.

Pause and reflect: In what area of your life is God inviting you to embrace humility? Is there someone you need to serve quietly, an apology you need to make, or a way you can lift others up above yourself? Journal or pray: “Father, give me the mind of Christ. Teach me to walk humbly with You and to lead with a servant’s heart in every circumstance.”

Let’s pray: Holy Spirit, uproot every trace of pride in us and fill us with the humility that comes from knowing we are deeply loved by You. Let our greatness be measured by our willingness to serve, our joy in lifting others, and our obedience to Your will. In the name of Yeshua, amen.

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Prayer

The Fruit of Servant Leadership: Impacting Lives for Eternity.

Friends, as we come to the heart of servant leadership, let’s remember that our acts of humble service—no matter how small—have eternal significance in the eyes of Yahweh. Jesus tells us in Matthew 23:11-12, “The greatest among you will be your servant. For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” In God’s Kingdom, nothing done in love is wasted. A word of encouragement, a meal shared, a moment of listening, a prayer whispered—these become seeds sown for a harvest that will only be fully seen in eternity.

Consider the legacy of those who led by serving. Moses shepherded a stubborn people with patience; Ruth served Naomi faithfully and was woven into Messiah’s family line; Paul “became all things to all people” that he might win some for Christ. Even in our own day, churches and communities are transformed not by the most charismatic or influential personalities, but by those who quietly serve, forgive, build, and love—over years and decades. Their impact outlasts their titles, their prayers sustain generations, and their joy is made complete as others step into their calling.

Servant leadership is never about the spotlight; it’s about the fruit that endures. Galatians 6:9-10 urges us, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people…” The greatest legacy you can leave is not a ministry, a business, or a platform, but a trail of lives touched, healed, and pointed to Yeshua by your faithful service.

Pause and reflect: Who are the servant leaders that have impacted your life? How is God inviting you to serve, give, and sow for eternity? Journal or pray: “Lord, thank You for those who have led me by example. Make my life fruitful for Your Kingdom, and help me serve others with joy and perseverance.”

Let’s pray: Father, thank You for the promise that our labor in the Lord is never in vain. Strengthen us to serve with endurance, to love when it is hard, and to trust that You are working through us for Your glory. May our lives be a testimony to Your grace and may many be drawn to You through our humble service. In Yeshua’s name, amen.

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Let’s Reflect: Take the Quiz

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Q1. What act did Jesus perform in John 13 to model servant leadership?
Q2. According to Philippians 2, what does true greatness in the Kingdom involve?
Q3. What is a practical example of humility in leadership as described in the sermon?
Q4. Why is humility described as "strength under control" in the life of a believer?
Q5. What is the true legacy of servant leadership according to the message?

Blessing for Servant Leaders.

May the gentle strength of Yeshua fill your heart as you follow His example of servant leadership in every season.

May Ruach HaKodesh grant you humility, wisdom, and compassion, so that your words and actions lift others and honor the Lord.

May you find joy in serving, courage in humbling yourself, and grace to lead with love, no matter the cost.

The Lord bless you and keep you, guiding your steps as you reflect Christ’s heart to all those in your care.

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