The Father’s Lament
5. The Father’s Lament
Description
“The Father’s Lament” is a thoughtful interlude acknowledging the hidden grief and regret that fathers often carry when it comes to abortion. Society’s narrative frequently overlooks men’s emotional turmoil, casting them in the roles of bystanders or even pressuring them to remain silent. This piece invites listeners to recognize that Abba Father Himself is compassionate toward every wounded heart, including those of men who feel powerless or shamed.
With a gentle, stripped-back arrangement, the song creates an intimate space for personal reflection. The first verse paints a portrait of a father wrestling with unspoken guilt, questioning whether there is a place for his sorrow before God. The second verse shifts toward repentance, appealing to Jehovah Tsidkenu (the Lord Our Righteousness) to cover the father’s failures with divine grace
Lyrically, the chorus calls upon Avinu (Our Father) to draw near and break the cycle of shame. The bridge expands this personal lament into a corporate prayer, asking Ruach HaKodesh to raise men of honor who champion life rather than abandon it. By gently confronting the pain that men face—whether they encouraged an abortion, did nothing to stop it, or remain haunted by a lost child—this interlude serves as a tender balm.
Concluding on a note of hope, “The Father’s Lament” speaks to the possibility of redemption. Through Yeshua HaMashiach, fathers can experience complete restoration, standing upright as protectors and providers. This track does more than grieve; it paves the way for a renewed understanding of fatherhood, rooted in God’s unyielding love.
5. The Father’s Lament
Key Scriptures
• Psalm 103:13–14 – As a father shows compassion, so the Lord shows compassion to us.
• Malachi 4:6 – Turning the hearts of fathers to children and children to fathers.
• 1 Corinthians 16:13–14 – Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, be strong, and do everything in love.
Devotion
When we discuss abortion, we often focus on mothers—rightly so, as they bear the immediate physical and emotional toll. However, fathers also experience profound grief and regret, whether they supported the decision to abort or felt helpless in preventing it. Malachi 4:6 beautifully captures God’s heart for restoration in families: turning the hearts of fathers to their children. This is a biblical promise that God can and will restore the father-child relationship, even amidst painful circumstances.
“The Father’s Lament” touches on the hidden sorrow many men carry. Society can pressure men to be stoic, silent, and disconnected from their emotions. Yet Scripture reveals that true fatherhood, modeled by Abba Father Himself, is compassionate and deeply invested. Psalm 103:13–14 describes how God pities His children, knowing our frailty. Earthly fathers are called to reflect this kind of tenderness.
For men who have either participated in, or been affected by, abortion, there is a path to healing. 1 Corinthians 16:13–14 exhorts men to stand firm, be strong, and act in love. Love includes repentance, vulnerability, and seeking God’s forgiveness where necessary. It also means reaching out for support—connecting with pastoral care, counseling, or men’s groups within the church.
If you are a father who grieves, take hold of the biblical truth that El Elyon (the Most High God) sees your pain and invites you into restoration. You are not beyond redemption; you are not alone in this journey. Lay your burdens at the feet of Yeshua HaMashiach, who is mighty to save. Open your heart to the Holy Spirit (Ruach HaKodesh) and let Him work repentance, comfort, and newfound purpose in you.
Prayer
Abba Father, reach into the hearts of men carrying silent grief. Show them Your compassion and lead them into healing. Raise up fathers who embrace their calling to protect and nurture life, reflecting Your heart of love. In Yeshua’s name, amen.
Lyrics
5. The Father’s Lament
Verse 1 (Current Condition)
A father’s guilt, hidden from the light
His tears unspoken in the dead of night
He wonders if there’s still a way
For broken hearts to find new day
Chorus (Worship)
Avinu (Our Father), draw us near
Heal our wounds, chase off our fear
El Elyon, enthroned above
Comfort us with endless love
Verse 2 (Repentance)
I lay my pride and failures down
Forgive the times I wore a crown
Jehovah Tsidkenu—our righteousness
Cover my shame with holiness
Chorus (Worship)
Avinu (Our Father), draw us near
Heal our wounds, chase off our fear
El Elyon, enthroned above
Comfort us with endless love
Bridge (Intercession)
Raise men of honor in this land
Empower us to take our stand
Ruach HaKodesh, guide our way
Let fatherhood be redeemed today
Outro (Hopeful Conclusion)
Avinu, You restore
Through Yeshua, we are more
Redeemed as fathers by Your hand
We rise in grace, we choose to stand
Chord Chart – coming soon
5. The Father’s Lament
Verse 1 (Current Condition)
A father’s guilt, hidden from the light
His tears unspoken in the dead of night
He wonders if there’s still a way
For broken hearts to find new day
Chorus (Worship)
Avinu (Our Father), draw us near
Heal our wounds, chase off our fear
El Elyon, enthroned above
Comfort us with endless love
Verse 2 (Repentance)
I lay my pride and failures down
Forgive the times I wore a crown
Jehovah Tsidkenu—our righteousness
Cover my shame with holiness
Chorus (Worship)
Avinu (Our Father), draw us near
Heal our wounds, chase off our fear
El Elyon, enthroned above
Comfort us with endless love
Bridge (Intercession)
Raise men of honor in this land
Empower us to take our stand
Ruach HaKodesh, guide our way
Let fatherhood be redeemed today
Outro (Hopeful Conclusion)
Avinu, You restore
Through Yeshua, we are more
Redeemed as fathers by Your hand
We rise in grace, we choose to stand